INTERRACIAL DATING
These kinds of questions speak volumes about us, Filipinas. And I couldn’t be more proud!
Filipina women are easy to love. But when you can earn their heart, not much can take that away from you.
Patience, perseverance, and consistency are just some of the things you have to show when you date one. To help you, here are a few things I’d like to share:
1.Respect her beliefs.
From a young age, Filipinas learn about Filipino culture, traditions, and beliefs. They are expected to carry them for a lifetime. Don’t expect these ladies to change what they believe in just because they have you.
Being open-minded about her culture and beliefs is a way for you to get along well. You don’t have to believe in the same things she does. After all, respect and acceptance go both ways.
2. Treat her family right.
Family is everything to us. They are our greatest treasure. When looking for a man, the way he treats our family carries weight in our decision to be with him.
If you want to pursue a Filipina, care for her family the way you do with yours. This way, you’ll be warmly accepted by them in return.
3. Learn the language.
What words do you know in Filipino?
If you know any, that’s great! We appreciate it when people speak our language. Whether you’re a man from another nation or a Filipino yourself, there’s no reason not to learn a new word or two. After all, we like to say “Mahal kita”, and hearing you say “Mahal din kita” warms our hearts.
4. Show some chivalry.
Being a gentleman never goes out of style, at least in the Philippines. It’s one of the most attractive things a man can be, so why not be one?
If there is anything Filipinas want from their partners, it’s to be treated right.
5. Share and receive.
Our hospitality is incomparable. We won’t hesitate to share with you even if we only have the last of our supper.
For you to win a Filipina, share and receive. Be generous as you get to experience the generosity we can offer. We don’t expect much from you, so don’t bother to think much about this.
6. Adapt Filipino humor.
People from the Philippines always wear a smile! If you are in the country, look around, and you’ll see how Filipinos love to smile.
No matter what the circumstances, our humor never fades. If you date a Filipina, don’t hesitate to share a good laugh with us. We truly appreciate a man with a sense of humor.
As a dating coach and matchmaking consultant myself, love is something you’ll always find in Filipinas. Make your actions show how much you can love. There’s always someone out there for you, so don’t lose hope.